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Del Rosario and Winter both emphasize that couples who actively work on their personal development can also improve their relationship and determine if there is a possible path forward.
“Couples must confront the issues that separated them in the first place,” says Winter. “If these issues are not addressed, corrected and transformed, there is no hope of surviving a second time.”
“Learning to effectively handle disagreements, enter into negotiations, listen and support each other is essential to the survival of a relationship,” she adds.
Del Rosario, meanwhile, believes therapy can play a big role in helping lovers find their way forward. “They need to really confront the issue or issues that drove them apart in the first place and seek the advice of a relationship therapist or coach. The therapist can help the couple create a working plan to get to the root of the conflict so they’re treating the disease rather than the symptoms,” she says.
“However, both partners must forgive each other and let the past be. You can carry the old with you while you move on to the new,” notes Del Rosario.
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