Summary

• Jenn Tran from the 21st season of “The Bachelorette” should not get engaged at the end of the season because she needs more time.
• Jenn’s focus on her engagement may cause her to make the wrong decision.
• The Bachelorette engagements so far have a dismal track record.

The Bachelorette Season 21 Main Role Jenn Tran wants to get engaged at the end of her season, but after her dates in her hometown, it’s clear that she shouldn’t do that because she needs more time. Jenn began her career with Joey Graziadei Bachelor Season. She made it into his top 6 women before he said goodbye to her shortly before his dates in his hometown.

Jenn was heartbroken, but she was thrilled to accept the role of lead actress The Bachelorette Season 21. She made history as the first Asian American Bachelor franchise lead. Although she has been a strong leader and made mostly good decisions throughout the season, Jenn’s focus on the engagement is a mistake. After saying goodbye to Jeremy Simon following her hometown dates, she is now heading to the Fantasty Suites with her final three men: Devin Strader, Marcus Shoberg and Jonathon Johnson. Here’s why Jenn should leave the show in a relationship, but not with a ring on her finger.

Jenn Tran and Jeremy Simon could have had a long-term relationship

Jenn only broke up with Jeremy because he didn’t seem ready for an engagement

Through The Bachelorette Season 21, Jenn and Jeremy had a sweet relationship. They kept gushing about how they made each other so happy. From their one-on-one date at Seattle’s Pike Place Market to their hometown date at Stew Leonard’s in Connecticut, they had so much fun together.

However, Jenn and Jeremy got a wake-up call from Jeremy’s family, especially his mother, when she told them that this was not a game or a show, but her real life. She thought that Jeremy might be ready for an engagement with the right person, but it was hard for her to tell if Jenn was that woman because she had only just met her. Additionally, Jeremy and Jenn had not expressed their feelings for each other before their date in their hometown. Although Jeremy told Jenn at the end of the date that he was falling in love with her, She said goodbye to him at the rose ceremony just before the Fantasy Suites.

Jenn and Jeremy seemed like a great couple, but they just weren’t ready to get engaged in the short time span of the show. If they had met in real life under normal circumstances, they could have built a long-term relationship, but instead Jenn broke up with him to get engaged. Maybe Jeremy was Jenn’s person, but she’ll never know because she wanted to rush into an engagement.

Jenn’s last 3 men don’t seem ready for engagement

Only Devin Strader said “I love you”

So far The Bachelorette Season 21, Jonathon and Marcus told Jenn they were falling in love with her, but only Devin said: “I love you.“ It’s hard to believe that Jenn is talking about getting engaged to Jonathon and Marcus when both of them were keeping quiet just a week ago. While Devin seems sincere, it’s also possible that he’s just telling Jenn what she wants to hear or what he believes to be true so he can continue the journey with her.

Jenn definitely needs more time to get to know these men rather than rushing into proposing.

It seems reckless of Jenn to consider an engagement with Jonathon and Marcus, who have not even told her “I love you” still. For some reason, none of Jenn’s connections to the men on The Bachelorette Season 21 seems strong enough to make such a big commitment at the end. Jenn definitely needs more time to get to know these men rather than rushing into a marriage proposal. It’s possible that Marcus, Jonathon, and Jeremy could all fall deeply in love with Jenn if given the time.

Additionally, Jenn thinks she wants an engagement, but she doesn’t seem ready for it either. She has to be very reserved with men because they don’t confess their feelings to her. If she were to slow down and take the pressure off them, things would develop in a more natural way, which would help her to be more sure of her final choice. An engagement at the end The Bachelorette Season 21 is just a bad idea for everyone.

The Bachelorette has a dismal track record

Only 4 of 22 Bachelorette couples are still together

The Bachelorette began in 2003 with the engagement and later wedding of Trista Rehn and Ryan SutterSince then, however, only three other couples have stayed together. These include married couples Desiree Hartsock and Chris Siegfried, JoJo Fletcher and Jordan Rodgers, and engaged couple Charity Lawson and Dotun Olubeko. Two Bachelorette Couples have divorced since marrying after the show – Ashley Hebert and JP Rosenbaum and Rachel Lindsay and Bryan Abasolo.

Since Becca Kurfrins Bachelorette Season 2018, every Bachelorette broke off her engagementincluding Hannah Brown, Clare Crawley, Tayshia Adams, Katie Thurston, Michelle Young, Gabby Windey and Rachel Recchia. The Bachelor And Bachelor in Paradise have a similarly dismal track record when it comes to lasting engagements that actually lead to marriage.

Of the 28 Bachelor students Sean Lowe is the only one who married his final choice, Catherine Giudiciwhile Zach Shallcross and Kaity Biggar as well as Joey Graziadei and Kelsey Anderson are still engaged and Matt James and Rachael Kirkconnell are still together. Although Bachelor in Paradise had some success, every couple from season 8 and 9 split up shortly after the season finale aired. The timelines of the Bachelor The franchise’s shows are far too short for couples to commit to a life together after their engagement.

It was quite obvious that the couples in these series did not know each other well enough at the time of their engagement and their relationship could not work in the real world. Jenn could be on her way to making the same mistake, but she should be smarter about it and learn from those mistakes. After all, this isn’t the first season of the show. Jenn wasn’t supposed to get engaged at the end of her season.

Jenn seems more focused on getting engaged than finding the right person

The Bachelorette should not end with a marriage proposal

It seems that Jenn is more likely to choose the man who is ready for engagement than the man who suits her. It’s possible that they’re the same person, but if the show didn’t end with a marriage proposal, Jenn might have chosen someone else. Jeremy and Jenn built a strong relationship, but they needed more time to develop a connection strong enough to decide if they wanted to get married.

It is regrettable that the pressure of the The Bachelorette cause Jenn to make decisions based on engagement rather than a strong relationship. She could miss out on someone great just because they aren’t there yet. It takes time to get to know people and these rushed engagements obviously don’t work out in most cases. Jenn needs more time to get to know Devin, Marcus and Jonathon before she gets engaged to any of them. Hopefully Jenn makes the right decision and lives happily ever after..

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